Hi there! Thank you for taking the time to explore my approach to Relationship Coaching and Mediation Services. My name is Lance, and I’m a trauma-informed, transformational relationship coach dedicated to helping individuals and couples navigate the complexities of their relationships. I believe that everything about us is deeply relational—whether it's how we connect with others or how we relate to the hidden, hurt, and fragmented parts of ourselves. At the core, it’s all about relationships, and I’m here to guide you in creating more meaningful, fulfilling connections. 

Why I Do This Work

One of the greatest gifts I’ve found in coaching is the reciprocal nature of the work. As I support my clients on their journeys of self-discovery and healing, I also deepen my own self-awareness. Each session is an opportunity for both my clients and me to grow. This mutual evolution is what makes coaching a truly transformative process, one that continues to enrich my life and the lives of those I work with.

My journey as a coach started in 2012. After the economic downturn, I began looking for a career that would truly align with my desire to make a difference in the lives of others. I found the Interchange Counseling Institute through community referrals and was immediately drawn to their compassionate, deep-dive techniques that help uncover core wounds. I was inspired to explore this work further, attending numerous trainings to hone my skills as a coach, with a particular focus on part-work and trauma-informed practices.

Since then, I’ve been on a mission to help others in their own journeys toward healing and reconnection. I began professionally practicing in 2020, right at the start of the pandemic, where I offered my services to a sex-positive, multi-relational community in the Bay Area. I believe deeply in giving back to my community, which is why I continue to offer services to those who need it most, while also constantly expanding my own knowledge and skills.

My Commitment to Lifelong Learning

I strongly believe that coaching is an ever-evolving practice. To provide the best possible support for my clients, I am constantly working to deepen my understanding and expertise. Currently, I am enrolled in a Relationship Coach Training with Derek Hart, who has over 30 years of experience helping couples. This training has been an incredible blessing, not only providing me with valuable tools to help my clients but also allowing me to explore my own personal journey.

Thank you for your time, and I look forward to supporting you.

Warmly,
Lance